"Jackson Plant" (jplant@jacksonplant.com)
05 December, 2003
I was really touched about your daughter. I wish that I had known her but
I know that she is happy now.
TigerlynnDi@aol.com
04 March, 2003
Visiting a family member I happened on Whisper's memorial and I believe
I
was guided to it. I as a mother will cherish every moment, day, month,
year that God grants me with my son. I can not imagine the loss and the
grief suffered by Whisper's mother. May God grant her peace knowing that
her daughter lives within her heart every day until they both meet again.
Thank you Whisper for reminding me how fortunate I am.
"Eiben, Bob" (Bob_Eiben@icgcomm.com)
09 October, 2002
I am truly sorry. She sounds like the most wonderful daughter you could
ever wish for. God will bring you together again.
B.E.
"Eiben, Bob" (Bob_Eiben@icgcomm.com)
22 October, 2001
Thoughts are forever, timeless.
"Lesire Jean-Marc" (jean.marc.lesire@skynet.be)
06 October, 2001
I leave you some flowers in the hoop that you are happy where you are
now. Give courage to your family, my thoughts are with them.
Patricia Vanneste-Belguim
"The May family" (dcmay@junct.com)
05 June, 2001
May God grant you his peace.
D. May
"Connie Bost" (bugger@outerbounds.net)
18 November, 2000
As I slowly turned the pages of this electronic memorial I was forever
changed by the sharing of your pain. I read through the messages and
knew that although everyone that had left a message had been genuine in
their giving not one could understand ... But until you walk a mile
in my shoes... I will not be so arrogant to compare the lose of my
father to the lose of your daughter... I am here only to compare the
false hope and tragedy of organ transplantation. My father had a heart
transplant Dec 29th 1986, in days, months and years he died 5 years, 9
months and 17day's later, but in Quality of life he died Dec 29th, 1986,
We too were given false promises and hope, only to have this wonderful
human being tortured before being jerked from our grasp! They developed
procedures and protocol but leave the soul to mind itself. How do we
grieve? They said it would be ok... They never mentioned the
continual ups and downs and the problems caused by the medicines and the
CMV and the anger caused by Prednizone... until you walk a mile in my
shoes... I grieve for your Whisper
"Solange" (solange@irishabroad.com)
04 August, 2000
For Whisper Lev Curry and her mother,
May the universe hold you in its palm and comfort you both until you can
be together again. My love goes out to you.
Blessings,
Solange
"neptune" (neptune@bbtel.com)
31 May, 1999
I share your pain of loosing a daughter. May you find peace in this life.
You will be together again.
"Michael Uhlman" (meuhlman@qwksilvr.com)
31 May, 1999
I would like to leave flowers. Thank you very much.
"gogolfin" (gogolfin@Bentonrea.com)
27 April, 1999
I was so touched by how you shared your broken heart with us. I, too,
have lost a child, and I know about the depth of pain you feel. I've
often thought about the fact that there is a very long and wide procession
of us, all parents, all going along the same path in somewhat the same
direction, but each carrying a heavy load that cannot be truly shared by
any of the others. Our pain, although similar to pain felt by many, is
ours alone. The comfort is is knowing there are others nearby who have
opened their hearts to us because they know. They offer hope and a
helping hand. How precious that is. As time goes on, I realize also how
very precious is my own life, and that I dare not waste it in deep
depression, regret and undue sorrow. And, surprisingly, I have found joy
in the midst of sorrow, as I know you must have too. This bouquet is for
Whisper, but especially for your encouragement, Mom.
"nrenfro" (nrenfro@neto.com)
24 April, 1999
To Whisper's Mom, I just wanted to tell you that I, too lost a daughter
because I "listened" to the experts. Why do people say "lost"?. We
didn't "lose" our daughters, they put them in the ground in a grave and
covered them up with soil.....We didn't LOSE them, we know where they are,
and that is why we will never the rest of our lives, be normal again. We
made mistakes. We "lost" our daughers (mine in 1998), but it is not our
fault. We HAVE to stop blaming ourselves. The pain of the loss is more
than we can bear, we must let go of some of the rest. We trusted the
wrong people, but when we were grasping at straws to keep our daughters,
how can we blame ourselves? As to the blaming of the ones that LET our
daughters die, God will take care of them, in his own way. We don't have
to do it for him.. Pray for my peace, and I will for yours..........They
took our daughter's lives, we can't let them take ours too....N
QUEEN67063@aol.com
2 September, 1998
To Whisper’s Mom:
Your memorial touched my heart and I wanted to say a few
thoughts
to you.... I am very sorry for your loss, Mom... I can only
imagine your
pain...
It’s very difficult embracing the stages of death....denial, anger, acceptance I my Mom last year and the hardest part is
moving on... I don’t think you ever
do...I breakdown at the oddest times...Could be just doing a
routine task like making dinner...Guess I know how you feel...I still feel like a Zombie and numb but you still have a son...and
you will help each other move on... We need not ask why this has
happened because no one has ever came back to tell us...You have
great memories and her legacy will live on through you!
You named your daughter Whisper so I expect she was a very
gentle quiet girl. So when you feel blue..just call her
name...she will be right there with you.... She's eternal in
your heart, forever... Memories are the only comfort we have.
Louise (mobyaround@adelphia.net)
2 September, 1998
I am at a loss after reading your memorial. It has plagued me
because of the pain you, the mother, feel. Yet I am feeling for
the son you have left and wonder about his double loss—sister
and mother. I wish I had a magical answer for you that would ease
your doubts and pain. I wonder how you could have had any other
choices but the ones you had. Would Whisper have lived had you
done nothing? You did what you thought best and there is no fault
in that. One can see by your pain that your only desire was to
have Whisper live, so the choices you made were with a mother’s
heart, and that cannot be wrong. I too have made the choices and
have lost a loved one and hindsight can tear us up, but we do
what we do out of love—that can never be wrong. Our children are
gifts, lent to us for a time, and you have 2 of those gifts. One is
gone away from you and the other remains. You can do nothing more
for Whisper now, but you can rejoice in your son and hold him
with both hands, because you know loss and the value of a
child. Whisper is with the Lord now and he will meet her needs, the boy is with you and I am sure needs you desperately. He too
is a special gift and if you were to lose him to death it would
devastate you, so do not lose him to your grief over Whisper. Be
the mother you were chosen to be, and be strong for your son. May
God be with you and ease your pain. Life is fleeting for us
all, so grab onto the joys it still holds for you and rejoice in
what you still have. I love the name -Whisper- it is soft and
gentle, as I am sure your daughter was. A Whisper has not grown
into a full sound as your daughter had not grown into
adulthood. She was a gift you held for a while, your son is a gift
you still have. God bless you all. Louise DeMeule
John Leonard (john_l6@verifone.com)
26 May, 1998
I’m very sorry for your loss. I encourage you to have faith in
the one true God, and you will see Whisper again when your time
has come to leave this world. This is not all there is.
WENDY L. (WL243695@webtv.net)
08 May, 1998
I would like to say on behalf of the family that I hope you are
doing as good as you can without what seemed to me this
wonderful child that was so wrongfully taken. I read your
dedication and I finished sobbing. I want to say that I know how
it feels, but honestly I don’t. I just wanted you to know that
even though I am a stranger that I was deeply touched.
My Prayers Are With You!!!
Diane Ditto (poppa@imagin.net)
06 April, 1998
I am so sorry for your loss, I too lost a son to heart defects.
You’re missing the joy of your son by mourning your daughter so
completely. Please stop blaming yourself and accept the fact
that if God wanted her then, he would take her by another
means if necessary, and turn to the task of Loving your son and
letting him know he has worth in himself, not just as Whisper’s
brother. He needs your love and attention now! May God bless
you and help you in this task! Share the LOVE!
Pico Rivera Department of Public Safety (prsa@worldnet.att.net)
14 March, 1998
On behalf of the Catholic Peace Officers Association, please
allow me to extend our most Heartfelt and sincerest sympathies
to you. GOD truly must have been lonely and called your angel to
stay at his side. May God Bless You.
speedbump (speedbump@toledotel.com)
13 March, 1998
May God be with you and your son.
Carol Covell (believer@buenavista.sbceo.k12.ca.us)
7 March, 1998
Death is nothing. It does not count. I have only slipped away
in the next room. Nothing has happened. Everything remains
exactly as it was. I am I, and you are you; and the old life
that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by the old familiar name. Speak of me in the easy way
that you always did. Put no difference into your tone. Wear no
forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile,
think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
There is absolute and unbroken continuity. What is death but a
negligible accident. Why should I be out of mind because I'm
out of sight? I am waiting for you—for an interval somewhere
very near, just around the corner. All is well.
Larry & Michelle Davis (lmdavis@visuallink.com)
30 January, 1998
I’m so sorry about your daughter, she is beautiful. I only have
one son, and I couldn’t imagine him leaving this earth before
me, and wonder how I would survive. Try to be strong, and know
that I pray for you and your family, and that you will somehow
find comfort. May The Lord Be With You!
Michelle Davis
"Mr. & Mrs. Wade" (ajwlaw@bellatlantic.net)
24 January, 1998
I just want you to know that God heals all your hurts and
wounds. Put your faith in him and he will guide you through. For
he has told us in his word, that it is a time appointed for us
that we may be born and die. Your monument to your daughter left
me crying. She is and will always be very beautiful. May God
bless you.
Peter Ashley (pete@icenet.com.au)
7 January, 1998
May u find peace
TWORAIL (TWORAIL@aol.com)
15 December, 1997
May God Bless